I just heard rumours speculating that one of my male friend going to get married to 3rd wife??? Unbelievable. Well maybe he can afford it but really its a shocking to me if the rumours is true...
I think if I mention his name most Malaysian will know who is this guy. I knew him many years back while I'm in Hard Rock Cafe, he was standing there staring at me and I can see his white hair.. We became friends and he was a humble person maybe still am. Ever he did ask me to go on a trip long time ago but well for me I only do that if he is my confirm serious boyfriend or husband. He's a very soft spoken & someone that I can communicate with but I can feel that there was no sparks to get serious with this guy. I am not sure why coz maybe he wasn't my type and also because he's married but I thought he only with one wife at that time as I am not interested to get myself involve with a married man. But to my surprise he actually told me later that he got two wives, I was like "Oh my god"!! And i thank god for protecting me because no wonder I felt more close to him as friends than lovers. Furthermore his character & mine
were totally the opposites. Now he is getting married to a third wife I don't understand how would some woman willingly except such proposals maybe desparate or just because off $$$. For me $$$$ is secondary just make sure he is not a married man coz if he is I don't mind being friend but not more than that.
Before this I ever came across the same thing this guy actually married but didn't even tell me about it. Many times he proposed to me but I kind of rejected telling him i wasn't ready which is true as I was enjoying life and he even came to my house to " masuk meminang" but my mum wasn't at home he got upset. later he then told me that he was already married with kids and that he also taking another wife. But still he ask me again one day while having coffee that he
wants to marry me then I told him " If you marry me it is like you marrying 3 wives at the same time I am not a simple person" Trying to scare him away.. Still he ask me to just marry him and that if I don't like he can let me go.. Really gila!! (crazy) but actually I kind of suspected that he is married and I thank god for protecting me against all these nonsense. Well i know they can afford to have few wifes coz they run their own business but Its kind of ridiculours. But they respect me and we still friends.
Well i don't mind if one day after a few years when I ever got married and later my husband want to marry second one but that is the later part. But maybe two is enough more than that can be abit crowded. Don't you think!!!
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